Wednesday, 18 September 2013

HOW TO DEAL WITH BITTER CRITICISM


 Those who are ignorant speak  against the creator of all that exists, so what treatment should we expect from people. well you will have o face criticism in your life, which in its onslaught is like an interminable war: it shows no sign of ending. As long as you shine, give, produce and have an effect on others, then disapproval and condemnation will be your lot in life.
    Until you escape from people by finding a tunnel in the ground or a ladder leading to the sky, they will not desist from censuring you, from finding faults in your character. for that reason as long as you are from the denizens of earth expect to be hurt, insulted, to be criticized.
   But here is something you should contemplate: a person who is sitting on the ground does not fall and people do not kick a dead dog. Therefore their anger toward you can be attributed to you surpassing them in righteousness, knowledge, manners or wealth. in their eyes you are a transgressor whose wrongs cannot  be atoned for- unless you abandon your talents and strip yourself of all praiseworthy qualities, so that you become stupid, worthless and to them innocuous. This is exactly what they want for you.
    So remain firm and patient when facing their insults and criticism. If you are wounded by their words and let them have an influence over you, you have realized their hope- to make life miserable and wretched. Forgive them by showing them the most beautiful of manners. Turn away from them and do not feel distressed by their schemes. their criticism will only improve your worth and merit.
    If you desire to be accepted by all and loved by all, you desire the unattainable. #Don'tbesadLivehappily#

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