Snagged a great guy? Fantastic! Now
read these 9 tips for how to keep him
interested.
So you’ve met a great guy and you don’t
want to let him slip through your
fingers? Super! But first, you’ll want to
make sure you’re a good fit for each
other. Think of yourself as a colander
and him as spaghetti — you don’t want
him to slide through the bottom into the
sink! So feel free to throw a noodle at
the wall and see if it stays. If he’s a
good fit and you want him to stick, you
will definitely want to know how to keep
him interested. Good pasta is hard to
come by (especially if you are gluten
free), and so is a good man.
1. Don’t try to prove that yours is bigger
than his.
I’m not talking about noodles here
ladies. I’m talking about everything in
general. If you are a CEO and founder
of the hottest cupcakerie corporation,
he won’t fall in love with you because you
bank account or your success is bigger
than his. If you’re a smarty-pants, you
don’t need to wow him with your brain
capacity. You might have a better sense
or will kick his b*tt in Scrabble, but men
do not fall in love with your giant brain,
they fall in love with your heart. So show
him all of your amazing traits, but not
all at once.
2. Keep dirty little secrets.
You don’t need to spell out every detail
of the money exchange rate for Quetzal
to centavos when you were in Guatemala
in the summer of ’99 on a student
exchange, or the fact that you used
“quetzal” for triple word score and
crushed your opponent last weekend at
the regional Scrabble championship
(seriously, drop the whole Scrabble
thing). You can, however, tell him about
how excited you are about your upcoming
trip to DC. Dating isn’t about education,
it is about connecting with a man on a
different level.
If you are all cerebral and no heart,
that’s where he will stay too. Do you
really want him to focus on your brain
and gossip, or something else? My vote is
for something else — and it has
everything to do with your essence.
3. Don’t stop acting like a child.
Lighten up! When you are dating a new
guy don’t forget to have fun while you’re
getting to know each other. No Debbie
Downers please. Look at the experience
of getting to know someone through the
eyes of a child. Remember what is was
like to be a kid making mud pies or
playing dress up? You can forget the
dirty business for now, but when you’re
getting ready for your date with this
new hottie, don’t forget to play dress
up. Take a bubble bath, put on some
music and make getting ready a pre-
date with yourself. This way you will be
feeling energized, beautiful and
feminine when he picks you up.
4. Smell the whipped cream.
Don’t forget your friends. When love (or
lust) is in the air, sometimes you forget
about Suzie and Natasha. Don’t diss your
best friend and her annual candle party
on Saturday night. Every day doesn’t
have to be spent with your new
boyfriend. You can go out with him on
Friday and your girlfriend’s party the
next night. Men always like it when a
woman’s world doesn’t revolve around
his — there’s less pressure! Besides, he’s
got to have a night to watch football with
his friends. So you might as well have
fun, too.
5. Keep everywhere clean.
Keep you and your place smelling tasty.
6. “That woman is sexy,” is part of your
vocabulary.
If you are on your date and he happens
to let his eyes linger on a passing booty,
you can chime in with a “She is so
beautiful, isn’t she?” You can feel good
about this because he is on a date with
you — and not her booty. Because,
remember, you have the sweet cookie
that he wants. This will show him you are
confident in yourself and you aren’t
going to freak out if he finds another
woman attractive. Men are wired to keep
their eyes peeled for protecting, and a
beautiful woman just happened to walk
by. It’s just his inner caveman coming
out. Don’t beat his natural instincts
down with a club because there will be
times when you will be more than happy
to meet his inner caveman… probably
behind closed doors. Learn how to have
good communication starting today.
7. Don’t do backbends unless you’re in
hot yoga.
If you have found yourself twisting
yourself around trying to be someone
you are not, just stop it! Without self-
love it’s really hard for you to let
someone else love you. So take a look at
yourself every day and love yourself
first. Do only what makes you feel good
and it will help you feel solid in yourself
and your new budding relationship. Stop
being a doormat and get the love you
want.
8. Take out your own trash.
When you begin a new relationship let
the past be the past. Don’t let the ghosts
of lovers and boyfriends fill up your
brain with garbage. If your last husband
was a player, and you imagine the new
guy is the same way, it’s not going to be
good for you, him or the relationship. So
put your baggage from old relationships
in the dumpster and be sure to close the
lid, and close it tight.
9. Believe in EPIC Love.
How to keep him interested is easy to do
if you believe in yourself and you believe
in the power of love. If you don’t believe
in yourself you’ve got nothing. So trust
yourself. Know that there is something
great waiting for you and it is just
around the corner
read these 9 tips for how to keep him
interested.
So you’ve met a great guy and you don’t
want to let him slip through your
fingers? Super! But first, you’ll want to
make sure you’re a good fit for each
other. Think of yourself as a colander
and him as spaghetti — you don’t want
him to slide through the bottom into the
sink! So feel free to throw a noodle at
the wall and see if it stays. If he’s a
good fit and you want him to stick, you
will definitely want to know how to keep
him interested. Good pasta is hard to
come by (especially if you are gluten
free), and so is a good man.
1. Don’t try to prove that yours is bigger
than his.
I’m not talking about noodles here
ladies. I’m talking about everything in
general. If you are a CEO and founder
of the hottest cupcakerie corporation,
he won’t fall in love with you because you
bank account or your success is bigger
than his. If you’re a smarty-pants, you
don’t need to wow him with your brain
capacity. You might have a better sense
or will kick his b*tt in Scrabble, but men
do not fall in love with your giant brain,
they fall in love with your heart. So show
him all of your amazing traits, but not
all at once.
2. Keep dirty little secrets.
You don’t need to spell out every detail
of the money exchange rate for Quetzal
to centavos when you were in Guatemala
in the summer of ’99 on a student
exchange, or the fact that you used
“quetzal” for triple word score and
crushed your opponent last weekend at
the regional Scrabble championship
(seriously, drop the whole Scrabble
thing). You can, however, tell him about
how excited you are about your upcoming
trip to DC. Dating isn’t about education,
it is about connecting with a man on a
different level.
If you are all cerebral and no heart,
that’s where he will stay too. Do you
really want him to focus on your brain
and gossip, or something else? My vote is
for something else — and it has
everything to do with your essence.
3. Don’t stop acting like a child.
Lighten up! When you are dating a new
guy don’t forget to have fun while you’re
getting to know each other. No Debbie
Downers please. Look at the experience
of getting to know someone through the
eyes of a child. Remember what is was
like to be a kid making mud pies or
playing dress up? You can forget the
dirty business for now, but when you’re
getting ready for your date with this
new hottie, don’t forget to play dress
up. Take a bubble bath, put on some
music and make getting ready a pre-
date with yourself. This way you will be
feeling energized, beautiful and
feminine when he picks you up.
4. Smell the whipped cream.
Don’t forget your friends. When love (or
lust) is in the air, sometimes you forget
about Suzie and Natasha. Don’t diss your
best friend and her annual candle party
on Saturday night. Every day doesn’t
have to be spent with your new
boyfriend. You can go out with him on
Friday and your girlfriend’s party the
next night. Men always like it when a
woman’s world doesn’t revolve around
his — there’s less pressure! Besides, he’s
got to have a night to watch football with
his friends. So you might as well have
fun, too.
5. Keep everywhere clean.
Keep you and your place smelling tasty.
6. “That woman is sexy,” is part of your
vocabulary.
If you are on your date and he happens
to let his eyes linger on a passing booty,
you can chime in with a “She is so
beautiful, isn’t she?” You can feel good
about this because he is on a date with
you — and not her booty. Because,
remember, you have the sweet cookie
that he wants. This will show him you are
confident in yourself and you aren’t
going to freak out if he finds another
woman attractive. Men are wired to keep
their eyes peeled for protecting, and a
beautiful woman just happened to walk
by. It’s just his inner caveman coming
out. Don’t beat his natural instincts
down with a club because there will be
times when you will be more than happy
to meet his inner caveman… probably
behind closed doors. Learn how to have
good communication starting today.
7. Don’t do backbends unless you’re in
hot yoga.
If you have found yourself twisting
yourself around trying to be someone
you are not, just stop it! Without self-
love it’s really hard for you to let
someone else love you. So take a look at
yourself every day and love yourself
first. Do only what makes you feel good
and it will help you feel solid in yourself
and your new budding relationship. Stop
being a doormat and get the love you
want.
8. Take out your own trash.
When you begin a new relationship let
the past be the past. Don’t let the ghosts
of lovers and boyfriends fill up your
brain with garbage. If your last husband
was a player, and you imagine the new
guy is the same way, it’s not going to be
good for you, him or the relationship. So
put your baggage from old relationships
in the dumpster and be sure to close the
lid, and close it tight.
9. Believe in EPIC Love.
How to keep him interested is easy to do
if you believe in yourself and you believe
in the power of love. If you don’t believe
in yourself you’ve got nothing. So trust
yourself. Know that there is something
great waiting for you and it is just
around the corner
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