After I wrote crazy ways to spark up your
relationship , the feedback revealed that
most men wouldn’t do some domestic duties
that comes with maintaining their
relationship regardless of the situation. It
made me wonder how various relationships
would survive where there are segregated
responsibilities or roles that men MUST not
take. Just as I believe in ego, I also believe
that some things if occasionally done
doesn’t kill a man’s ego – they only cause
maximum effect – they brightens the union
and quickens the connection. The general
problem in relationships often commences
when our partner fails in their supposed
responsibilities. For instance, if a woman’s
“compulsory” duty is to make breakfast and
dinner, what happens the day she comes
home late and tired? Would she still go
ahead and prepare the meal? Remember
she made breakfast before leaving and not
making the dinner was probably an
occurrence she couldn’t control. Now, here is
the logic: the time that would take you, the
man, to wait and rant about that unusual
lateness, the meal of you-two would have
been ready and served. Let me make this
clear, when your partner does something
unusual, the best you can do is to manage
the situation with some considerations. There
are issues that could be properly managed in
a relationship with good understanding of
the situation and your ability to do that
makes her respect your personality the
more. The ways to a woman’s heart is NOT
necessary the gifts, flowers and whatnot, it
could be your sense of understanding,
judgment or your response or reaction to
issues that affects her. Now, let’s look into
30 things men must know and these points I
gathered from my years of consistent
counseling.
1 - A LITTLE “THANK YOU” COULD
STRENGTHEN HER.
2 - EVEN WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE’S
BEAUTIFUL, SHE WOULD LIKE TO HEAR IT
FROM YOU SOMETIMES.
3 - A LITTLE KITCHEN HELP KILLS NO EGO.
4 - EVERY LADY WANTS A MAN THAT CAN
PROTECT HER – SHE NEEDS TO BE SAFE
AROUND YOU!
5 - TO SOME LADIES, COLLECTING MONEY
FROM YOU IS JUST YOUR LITTLE
COMMITMENT TO THE RELATIONSHIP AND NOT
A DO OR DIE THING.
6 - ANY LADY THAT REMINDS YOU OF HER EX
WAS NEVER INTO YOU.
7 - YOU NEVER CAN WIN A LADY’S HEART BY
SPENDING, IF YOU DO, THERE’S A BETTER
SPENDER TOO.
8 - JUST AS YOU’VE GOT A WEAKNESS, SHE
DOES TOO. HENCE, YOU MANAGE HERS, SHE
MANAGE YOURS.
9 - YOU CAN PUSH A LADY TO A
BREAKING POINT BUT WHEN SHE DOES,
SHE’S NEVER THE SAME PERSON YOU
KNEW.
10 - WHEN SHE STARTS KEEPING SECRETS,
THERE’S SOMETHING YOU’VE DONE WRONG.
11 - SHE’S NEVER TO PAY THE BILLS, AND IF
ANYTIME SHE DOES, SHE’S NOT TO CONTINUE
PAYING.
12 – SOMETIMES, LISTENING TO HER
OPINION CONFIRMS HER POSITION IN THE
RELATIONSHIP.
13 - BEING HER MAN IS NOT JUST
PROTECTING HER AT HOME BUT EVEN FROM
YOUR FAMILY.
14 - ON A FIRST DATE, PULLING DOORS AND
CHAIRS IS PART OF A GENTLEMAN’S DEAL,
JUST DO IT!
15 - IF YOU LOVE KIDS, YOU’RE SURE
WINNING HER OVER.
16 - INTIMACY IS NOT ABOUT YOUR
PERSONAL SATISFACTION, SHE MUST BE
SATISFIED TOO.
17 - IF SHE DOESN’T RESPECT YOU, SHE
WON’T RESPECT YOUR FAMILY.
18 - THE SPOT YOU MET A LADY COULD TELL
A LOT ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND ITS
FUTURE.
19 - IF SHE BRINGS HER FRIENDS HOME
OFTEN, IT’S NO JACKPOT, IT’S A FIDELITY
TEST!
20 - YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT TURNS YOUR
WOMAN ON; WOMEN AREN’T THE SAME IN
BED.
21 - DON’T REPLACE SEEING HER WITH
REGULAR CALLING AND TEXT MESSAGES;
YOUR PRESENCE KEEPS HER SAFE.
22 - SOMETIMES YOU DON’T TRY TO WIN AN
ARGUMENT, LET HER HAVE HER WAY - SHE
COULD DISCOVER HER FOLLY.
23 - EVERY LADY HAS A BEAST IN HER, IT’S
EITHER YOU CAGE IT OR UNLEASH IT.
24 - IF SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU AND HER
FAMILY DOES, IT’S NO COMPENSATION, LET
HER BE!
25 - YOUR POTENTIAL IS NOT A GUARANTEE
THAT SHE WOULD STAY WITH YOU, WORK
HARD AND CONVERT IT TO SUBSTANCE.
26 - WHAT YOU DID TO GET HER, YOU MUST
CONTINUE DOING IT TO KEEP HER ELSE YOU
LOSE HER.
27 - SOMETIMES HER BODY LANGUAGE COULD
BE DIFFERENT FROM HER SPOKEN WORDS,
TRY TO DECERN.
28 - TO ALWAYS IMPRESS A LADY WITHOUT
SPOKEN WORDS, DRESS WELL!
29 - IF YOUR HANDSOMENESS BROUGHT HER
CLOSER TO YOU, THAT’S A FLING!
30 - MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE A PRISON
FOR HER, ALLOW HER EXPLORE HER
POTENTIALS, REMEMBER, SHE’S GOT
AMBITIONS BEFORE SHE MARRIED YOU.
31 – IF YOU TELL HER NOT TO WORK BECAUSE
YOU’VE GOT MONEY, WHEN YOU’RE BROKE,
YOU WOULD CALL HER – LAZY!
32 – AWAY FROM PERSONAL WISDOM AND
EFFORTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP, DON’T
FORGET PRAYING TOGETHER!
A safe landing I guess? Yeah! In my active
experiences as a relationship coach, I’ve
gathered these important points which would
be updated regularly. There is this excessive
applaud that goes along with being a man.
This has shut the mind of so many men from
lowering some standards or compromising
even if little. So many men wants to win in
their relationships at the expense of the
happiness in the union. So many men are
powerfully driven by ego even at the
detriment or pain of their partner. So many
men wouldn’t listen, so many men are
aggressive and arrogant. The fact remain
that, in a relationship, the real man is the
growing man; not a static or one-sided
oriented person who wouldn’t adjust his
status when needed or compromise when
necessary for the happiness of the union.
When we say, a woman is a weaker vessel; it
doesn’t mean she’s weak in the brain or
hands – it only means, more than you
imagine, she needs strength from you. How
you handle her will determine how she
handles you. And if at all you’ve been really
bad to her and she has been good still,
you’re only pushing her toward a break-
down where you would no longer have the
same woman you once knew. Allow me stop
here; this isn’t a book . . . LOL! For the
ladies, please read 16 Raw Truths Ladies
Must Know. Happy living!
SOURCE: http://
www.coachdexplorer.com/2013/12/32-
things-men-must-know.html
relationship , the feedback revealed that
most men wouldn’t do some domestic duties
that comes with maintaining their
relationship regardless of the situation. It
made me wonder how various relationships
would survive where there are segregated
responsibilities or roles that men MUST not
take. Just as I believe in ego, I also believe
that some things if occasionally done
doesn’t kill a man’s ego – they only cause
maximum effect – they brightens the union
and quickens the connection. The general
problem in relationships often commences
when our partner fails in their supposed
responsibilities. For instance, if a woman’s
“compulsory” duty is to make breakfast and
dinner, what happens the day she comes
home late and tired? Would she still go
ahead and prepare the meal? Remember
she made breakfast before leaving and not
making the dinner was probably an
occurrence she couldn’t control. Now, here is
the logic: the time that would take you, the
man, to wait and rant about that unusual
lateness, the meal of you-two would have
been ready and served. Let me make this
clear, when your partner does something
unusual, the best you can do is to manage
the situation with some considerations. There
are issues that could be properly managed in
a relationship with good understanding of
the situation and your ability to do that
makes her respect your personality the
more. The ways to a woman’s heart is NOT
necessary the gifts, flowers and whatnot, it
could be your sense of understanding,
judgment or your response or reaction to
issues that affects her. Now, let’s look into
30 things men must know and these points I
gathered from my years of consistent
counseling.
1 - A LITTLE “THANK YOU” COULD
STRENGTHEN HER.
2 - EVEN WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE’S
BEAUTIFUL, SHE WOULD LIKE TO HEAR IT
FROM YOU SOMETIMES.
3 - A LITTLE KITCHEN HELP KILLS NO EGO.
4 - EVERY LADY WANTS A MAN THAT CAN
PROTECT HER – SHE NEEDS TO BE SAFE
AROUND YOU!
5 - TO SOME LADIES, COLLECTING MONEY
FROM YOU IS JUST YOUR LITTLE
COMMITMENT TO THE RELATIONSHIP AND NOT
A DO OR DIE THING.
6 - ANY LADY THAT REMINDS YOU OF HER EX
WAS NEVER INTO YOU.
7 - YOU NEVER CAN WIN A LADY’S HEART BY
SPENDING, IF YOU DO, THERE’S A BETTER
SPENDER TOO.
8 - JUST AS YOU’VE GOT A WEAKNESS, SHE
DOES TOO. HENCE, YOU MANAGE HERS, SHE
MANAGE YOURS.
9 - YOU CAN PUSH A LADY TO A
BREAKING POINT BUT WHEN SHE DOES,
SHE’S NEVER THE SAME PERSON YOU
KNEW.
10 - WHEN SHE STARTS KEEPING SECRETS,
THERE’S SOMETHING YOU’VE DONE WRONG.
11 - SHE’S NEVER TO PAY THE BILLS, AND IF
ANYTIME SHE DOES, SHE’S NOT TO CONTINUE
PAYING.
12 – SOMETIMES, LISTENING TO HER
OPINION CONFIRMS HER POSITION IN THE
RELATIONSHIP.
13 - BEING HER MAN IS NOT JUST
PROTECTING HER AT HOME BUT EVEN FROM
YOUR FAMILY.
14 - ON A FIRST DATE, PULLING DOORS AND
CHAIRS IS PART OF A GENTLEMAN’S DEAL,
JUST DO IT!
15 - IF YOU LOVE KIDS, YOU’RE SURE
WINNING HER OVER.
16 - INTIMACY IS NOT ABOUT YOUR
PERSONAL SATISFACTION, SHE MUST BE
SATISFIED TOO.
17 - IF SHE DOESN’T RESPECT YOU, SHE
WON’T RESPECT YOUR FAMILY.
18 - THE SPOT YOU MET A LADY COULD TELL
A LOT ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND ITS
FUTURE.
19 - IF SHE BRINGS HER FRIENDS HOME
OFTEN, IT’S NO JACKPOT, IT’S A FIDELITY
TEST!
20 - YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT TURNS YOUR
WOMAN ON; WOMEN AREN’T THE SAME IN
BED.
21 - DON’T REPLACE SEEING HER WITH
REGULAR CALLING AND TEXT MESSAGES;
YOUR PRESENCE KEEPS HER SAFE.
22 - SOMETIMES YOU DON’T TRY TO WIN AN
ARGUMENT, LET HER HAVE HER WAY - SHE
COULD DISCOVER HER FOLLY.
23 - EVERY LADY HAS A BEAST IN HER, IT’S
EITHER YOU CAGE IT OR UNLEASH IT.
24 - IF SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU AND HER
FAMILY DOES, IT’S NO COMPENSATION, LET
HER BE!
25 - YOUR POTENTIAL IS NOT A GUARANTEE
THAT SHE WOULD STAY WITH YOU, WORK
HARD AND CONVERT IT TO SUBSTANCE.
26 - WHAT YOU DID TO GET HER, YOU MUST
CONTINUE DOING IT TO KEEP HER ELSE YOU
LOSE HER.
27 - SOMETIMES HER BODY LANGUAGE COULD
BE DIFFERENT FROM HER SPOKEN WORDS,
TRY TO DECERN.
28 - TO ALWAYS IMPRESS A LADY WITHOUT
SPOKEN WORDS, DRESS WELL!
29 - IF YOUR HANDSOMENESS BROUGHT HER
CLOSER TO YOU, THAT’S A FLING!
30 - MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE A PRISON
FOR HER, ALLOW HER EXPLORE HER
POTENTIALS, REMEMBER, SHE’S GOT
AMBITIONS BEFORE SHE MARRIED YOU.
31 – IF YOU TELL HER NOT TO WORK BECAUSE
YOU’VE GOT MONEY, WHEN YOU’RE BROKE,
YOU WOULD CALL HER – LAZY!
32 – AWAY FROM PERSONAL WISDOM AND
EFFORTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP, DON’T
FORGET PRAYING TOGETHER!
A safe landing I guess? Yeah! In my active
experiences as a relationship coach, I’ve
gathered these important points which would
be updated regularly. There is this excessive
applaud that goes along with being a man.
This has shut the mind of so many men from
lowering some standards or compromising
even if little. So many men wants to win in
their relationships at the expense of the
happiness in the union. So many men are
powerfully driven by ego even at the
detriment or pain of their partner. So many
men wouldn’t listen, so many men are
aggressive and arrogant. The fact remain
that, in a relationship, the real man is the
growing man; not a static or one-sided
oriented person who wouldn’t adjust his
status when needed or compromise when
necessary for the happiness of the union.
When we say, a woman is a weaker vessel; it
doesn’t mean she’s weak in the brain or
hands – it only means, more than you
imagine, she needs strength from you. How
you handle her will determine how she
handles you. And if at all you’ve been really
bad to her and she has been good still,
you’re only pushing her toward a break-
down where you would no longer have the
same woman you once knew. Allow me stop
here; this isn’t a book . . . LOL! For the
ladies, please read 16 Raw Truths Ladies
Must Know. Happy living!
SOURCE: http://
www.coachdexplorer.com/2013/12/32-
things-men-must-know.html
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