1. Sex is a powerful force that can
destroy if not used properly
Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful
creative force given to man. When atomic
power is used correctly it can create
boundless energy; when it is used in the
wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same
kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from
God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help
in creating a deep companionship with one's
spouse and for procreation of the next
generation. But if you play with this
powerful force outside the bounds of
marriage, it destroys you and those close to
you.
2. intimate activity for young people
arrests their psychological, social and
academic development. Studies show that
when young people engage in premarital sex,
their academic performance declines and
their social relationships with family and
friends deteriorate. This is because
adolescents are too immature to deal with
the explosive sex drive and it tends to
dominate their life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy
sex outside of the bonds of marriage.
The development of a fulfilling sex life
needs the security and peace of the
marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes
place sneaking around in hidden places
dealing with the fear of being caught, the
fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All
these (worrisome) factors undermine
pleasure in premarital sex, most especially
for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most
important person in your life, the person
you committed yourself to stay with
forever in marriage Your virginity is the
most precious thing you have to give to your
spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world
can bring it back. Don't lose something so
precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a
high risk of contracting one of the many
venereal diseases rampant today, as well as
losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but
other common disfiguring diseases like
herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms
and many couples discover many years later
that they became infertile because of these
diseases. Infertility experts estimate that
80% of today's infertility is due to venereal
diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that
guarantees 100% against AIDS and other
sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for
marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity
in your marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the 10
Commandments given by God. The 10
Commandments are given to man by God to
make man happy. They are not outdated
and they are not restrictive. If we follow
these laws, we can create happy and
prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we
will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease,
abortions, illegitimate children and
loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake
when they think that they can break these
eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving
illegitimate children. Numerous scientific
studies show that the children of single
mothers suffer psychologically and are less
successful socially and academically than
children from intact families. Above all,
children need both their father and their
mother. It is wrong to risk having children
who will never have their father's love,
protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have sex, you
can forget about that relationship when you
stop dating. But if you have sex with those
you date and then break up, the nature of
intimate involvement creates strong, often
unpleasant memories for your whole life.
Every relationship you break up where you
had intimate relations is like a mini-
divorce. The psychological difficulties of
these mini-divorces does damage to your
character. Later, when you are married and
go to bed with your beloved spouse, these
unpleasant memories will accompany you.
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destroy if not used properly
Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful
creative force given to man. When atomic
power is used correctly it can create
boundless energy; when it is used in the
wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same
kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from
God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help
in creating a deep companionship with one's
spouse and for procreation of the next
generation. But if you play with this
powerful force outside the bounds of
marriage, it destroys you and those close to
you.
2. intimate activity for young people
arrests their psychological, social and
academic development. Studies show that
when young people engage in premarital sex,
their academic performance declines and
their social relationships with family and
friends deteriorate. This is because
adolescents are too immature to deal with
the explosive sex drive and it tends to
dominate their life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy
sex outside of the bonds of marriage.
The development of a fulfilling sex life
needs the security and peace of the
marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes
place sneaking around in hidden places
dealing with the fear of being caught, the
fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All
these (worrisome) factors undermine
pleasure in premarital sex, most especially
for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most
important person in your life, the person
you committed yourself to stay with
forever in marriage Your virginity is the
most precious thing you have to give to your
spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world
can bring it back. Don't lose something so
precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a
high risk of contracting one of the many
venereal diseases rampant today, as well as
losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but
other common disfiguring diseases like
herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms
and many couples discover many years later
that they became infertile because of these
diseases. Infertility experts estimate that
80% of today's infertility is due to venereal
diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that
guarantees 100% against AIDS and other
sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for
marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity
in your marriage.
8. Premarital sex breaks the 10
Commandments given by God. The 10
Commandments are given to man by God to
make man happy. They are not outdated
and they are not restrictive. If we follow
these laws, we can create happy and
prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we
will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease,
abortions, illegitimate children and
loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake
when they think that they can break these
eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving
illegitimate children. Numerous scientific
studies show that the children of single
mothers suffer psychologically and are less
successful socially and academically than
children from intact families. Above all,
children need both their father and their
mother. It is wrong to risk having children
who will never have their father's love,
protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have sex, you
can forget about that relationship when you
stop dating. But if you have sex with those
you date and then break up, the nature of
intimate involvement creates strong, often
unpleasant memories for your whole life.
Every relationship you break up where you
had intimate relations is like a mini-
divorce. The psychological difficulties of
these mini-divorces does damage to your
character. Later, when you are married and
go to bed with your beloved spouse, these
unpleasant memories will accompany you.
http://www.unification.net/tfv/
tenreasons.html
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