How To Turn Him On: 4 Common Traits Real Men Desire In A Woman

If you want to become the kind of
woman that drives men crazy, make sure
you have these 4 traits.
I’ve always said that there’s no one
woman that all men desire. A woman one
man falls head over heels in love with,
will probably turn another man off. That
said, there are some common traits and
characteristics most men desire in a
woman. In fact, I’ll rephrase that.
There are several traits real men desire
in a woman.
First, let’s just be clear on the
difference between real men and “man-
babies.” A real man will return your calls
and texts. He’s emotionally mature. He’s
not afraid to talk about his feelings,
and he doesn’t panic when you talk
about commitment.
doesn’t expect you to play them either.
He’s the man that will hold your hand,
and cuddle with you on the couch without
pushing himself on you, because he’s in
control of himself sexually. He’s the
kind of man most of my women readers
talk about wanting to meet. So, what are
the common traits the real man wants in
a woman?
Let me reveal all. There are others, but
these are the big 4:
He wants you to be playful.
Dating should be fun, and men want to
have a relationship with someone they
can have a laugh with. Nothing turns
men off quicker than a drama queen.
There’s nothing worse than a woman who
thrives on some kind of drama or crisis
in her life. Real men want women to
connect with them on a playful level.
Remember in many ways, men are like
big dogs. We love to play, and we love to
embrace our inner child. So don’t take
yourself too seriously, and be open to
the fun life has to offer. It’s all around
you. You just need to let yourself go.
He wants you to have emotional
maturity.
Sometimes in life things don’t go right,
and in every relationship, there are
going to be bumps. A real man looks for
a woman who doesn’t turn into an
emotional wreck the second there’s a
problem. I can’t stand seeing a woman
throw a temper tantrum in the middle
of an argument, and neither can most
other men. It throws up a huge
relationship red flag for us. We want to
know that if there’s anything that
needs to be discussed, we can sit down
calmly and quietly and talk things
through, without worrying whether
you’re going to throw a vase at our
heads!
He wants an independent woman.
Don’t be fooled by the myth that men
don’t like modern women who have
strength and power. Obviously, we don’
want a woman that’s going to bust our
balls or treat us like children, but we like
knowing you’re in control of your own
life. We like knowing you have your own
friends, and that we don’t have to take
control of every tiny detail of the
relationship. Just don’t make the
mistake some women make, of not
letting the man have the lead at all. We
like to feel needed and wanted. Let us
come and fix things at your house now
and then. We love to play the knight in
shining armor sometimes.
He wants s*xual confidence.
Men want to know you’re sexually alive.
We want to feel like you have your s*xual
energy turned on, and that you have
plenty of s*xual confidence.
Don’t get me wrong, you don’t need to be
a nymphomaniac, but don’t be afraid to
let loose and have fun in the bedroom.
If you’re enjoying yourself, let your
man know. Scream, shout, and call his
name if he’s doing something you like.
Men love affirmation.
So there you have it…4 traits that men
desire in a woman. Remember, all men
are different and no one woman is ever
going to be right for every man out
there, but make these 4 traits part of
your life, and you’ll rarely be without an
eager, loving man by your side!