Rejection is a possibility for anyone –
yes even beautiful women – no matter
how much you weigh the averages and
make up excuses for why it shouldn’t be
this way. Many of the reasons for
rejection are as stupid as the day is
long, but most of the time there is a
longer explanation that goes beyond
looks.
Consider the traditional art of “game”,
we run up on a stranger with some
conversation, a little strategy and
whatever we know from experience and
depending on the way the dice fall we
either get some feedback or she disses us
and moves away. What tends to happen
on the diss for amateurs is that we sit
back analyzing where we went wrong,
what we lack, and what her problem is.
We turn into stuck cars spinning away at
our wheels trying to come up with an
excuse for the rejection.
Consider some of the excuses we tend to
come up with:
Well maybe she has a man.
She looks like a stuck-up broad anyway.
It’s obvious she’s looking for a trick with
money; I mean this is an expensive steak
house and she’s alone.
Her loss.
What if you find out that she’s in a bad
spot at the time and getting hooked up
is the last thing on her mind? Maybe she
has a firm rule about guys who approach
her in clubs? What if you look way too
much like her brother and she thought it
was creepy? Far-fetched? Maybe, maybe
not but my point in these suppositions is
that we never know. This is why the
hardcore wolves don’t give it a thought;
she gave you a no – on to the next!
While it may seem like a male problem
this whole rejection and excuses thing –
I swear that women take it 10 times
worse than we do, especially if said
woman is under the assumption that she
is on her game at the time. You’ve seen
it before, the try-hard chick who goes
up to a guy batting her eyes, sliding him
her number and overplaying her hand.
Any guy should be grateful to have it fall
in his lap that easily right? No, not
based on the way things work – contrary
to popular belief not all guys are
desperate or in need of it.
The only cure for rejection is acceptance
There is never a time when someone is so
major that anyone they talk to is an
instant hook-up. A woman can look like
Adriana Lima and still be lonely, not
because she isn’t beautiful but because
the other person has their own reasons.
So instead of making it all about you in
the case of hooking up with someone,
kicking game, or even in taking a
relationship to the next level, consider
that there is another human being
involved in the decision-making. Accept
rejection and move on.
Source: halloftheblackdragon.com
yes even beautiful women – no matter
how much you weigh the averages and
make up excuses for why it shouldn’t be
this way. Many of the reasons for
rejection are as stupid as the day is
long, but most of the time there is a
longer explanation that goes beyond
looks.
Consider the traditional art of “game”,
we run up on a stranger with some
conversation, a little strategy and
whatever we know from experience and
depending on the way the dice fall we
either get some feedback or she disses us
and moves away. What tends to happen
on the diss for amateurs is that we sit
back analyzing where we went wrong,
what we lack, and what her problem is.
We turn into stuck cars spinning away at
our wheels trying to come up with an
excuse for the rejection.
Consider some of the excuses we tend to
come up with:
Well maybe she has a man.
She looks like a stuck-up broad anyway.
It’s obvious she’s looking for a trick with
money; I mean this is an expensive steak
house and she’s alone.
Her loss.
What if you find out that she’s in a bad
spot at the time and getting hooked up
is the last thing on her mind? Maybe she
has a firm rule about guys who approach
her in clubs? What if you look way too
much like her brother and she thought it
was creepy? Far-fetched? Maybe, maybe
not but my point in these suppositions is
that we never know. This is why the
hardcore wolves don’t give it a thought;
she gave you a no – on to the next!
While it may seem like a male problem
this whole rejection and excuses thing –
I swear that women take it 10 times
worse than we do, especially if said
woman is under the assumption that she
is on her game at the time. You’ve seen
it before, the try-hard chick who goes
up to a guy batting her eyes, sliding him
her number and overplaying her hand.
Any guy should be grateful to have it fall
in his lap that easily right? No, not
based on the way things work – contrary
to popular belief not all guys are
desperate or in need of it.
The only cure for rejection is acceptance
There is never a time when someone is so
major that anyone they talk to is an
instant hook-up. A woman can look like
Adriana Lima and still be lonely, not
because she isn’t beautiful but because
the other person has their own reasons.
So instead of making it all about you in
the case of hooking up with someone,
kicking game, or even in taking a
relationship to the next level, consider
that there is another human being
involved in the decision-making. Accept
rejection and move on.
Source: halloftheblackdragon.com
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